Definition of Addiction

The best definition I found is the one I heard Dr Drew use:

Definition of Addiction:

When something (anything) has negative consequences, you're aware of the connection, and you keep doing it.

(paraphrased by me)

Meta Shame:

Ignorance is bliss? Meta Shame is when you feel bad ABOUT feeling bad.

for example: you just made a connection, you've become aware that your current behavior stems from, was originally, sourced by an experience in your youth, your formative years...

now you know this, but you keep on doing what ever... and you know it's not "from" you, it's "from" your broken childhood... yet you keep doing it

before you knew about the family systems "connection", you merely felt bad, now you feel bad ABOUT feeling bad.

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Tips for Slips

Slips, what is and isn't a slip

My definition of a slip is you "indulge", make that "slip" into something it isn't, make it bigger than it really is... then condemn your self (self deprecation is something we're world champion, Olympic athletes at, addicts are hands down the best in the world at self deprecation)

... then give up.

At some point every addict who is recently clean asks themselves this question:

"Am I the kind of addict if I take one hit, I'm doomed to spend all my money on the shit again?"

We've all seen users who can use and stop, they seem to have more 'will power' than we do. They can use, but not spend the rent money. They can use one weekend and not the next week end.

We've all seen dealers who do not use, and some that do use. Among the latter, there are some who can hold onto what they have, because they have to turn it over... even if they want a hit real bad.

If we did that (and many of us have tried to sell just enough to pay for our stash), if we were in those shoes, we would smoke up the whole thing.

There is only one way for a recently clean addict to answer that question and that's to try it and see if we can use a little and stop.

I'm not suggesting that you try this to see which kind of addict you were, I'm saying this question lurks in the back of the mind of more than a few recovering addicts.

Which raises the question of "is that a slip?"

I found this message on a recovery message board I belong to, I thought I'd pass it along.

If you don't work to prevent a slip, the chances are you will slip. And if
you don't respond wisely to having a slip, it's likely that you will fall.
Recovery from addiction doesn't just happen - it takes planning, effort,
and follow-through. The responsibility is yours. The following suggestions
about slips are things that you - and only you - can do to safeguard your
recovery.

Prevent
1. Heed the principles of addiction and recovery. Recovery - an end to
drug urges - may take a year or more of learning new responses to old
situations. So be consistent with healthy new activities. Make them
habits. And be patient with yourself.
2. Associate with positive people. One valuable habit is always to look
for the people among those you meet who have strength and good feelings.
Make them your friends.
3. Plan in advance. Don't leave things to chance. Plan activities with
positive people, people in whom you have confidence and trust. Boredom is
one of the biggest factors in relapse, and you can avoid it by keeping your
schedule active.
4. Update, review, and pay attention to your list of risky situations. You
know what situations, places, and people are most risky for you and threaten
your recovery. If you avoid the "relapse traps" that are most powerful for
you, your chances of a slip are greatly reduced.

Prepare
1. Identify the people you would go to if you slipped. Who would
understand what you were going through and would care about you and really
help you? If you don't have such people in your life, find them. Start
now.
2. After careful thought and discussion with the people you respect and can
count on, determine what other things you would do if you slipped. Think
carefully.
3. Remember the TIPS principles: Truth, Information, Priorities, Support.
Respond
1. If you do slip, slow down - and think. Remember: You have a recovery
plan (?), you have already begun to build a new life, and a slip is not a
fall. Don't forget who you are and where you came from.
2. Follow through on your plan. Go to your support people and listen to
them. Do whatever else you told yourself you would do.
3. Learn from the experience. Future slips can be avoided, and this one is
an opportunity to learn how. Turn a negative experience around by benefiting
from it.
4. Recommit yourself to personal growth. Consider your whole life - not
just the drug part - and look for where you need to grow. Your slip is a
reminder that to stay straight and upright you must always move forward - at
your own pace and in your own direction - but always forward.

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What it's like now that I'm clean

There were grandiose ideas I had when I started this blog and the codependency blogs I started back in 2001. I'd hoped to write stuff that would be sharing my experience, strength and hope for those like me who were "saveable".

At first I wrote to speak to educated addicts (including self educated like me) who could understand the theories behind the addiction authors I was learning from. I was surprised to discover most of my blog readers were therapists and drug counselors.

From my experience as a user I've been able to observe behaviors up close and personal, unlike a psychologist who observes as an outsider and draws conclusions based on text book theories and case studies. I'm erudite enough to have been in what I think is a unique position of knowing what the counselors know and knowing what is really going on inside a users psyche.

I'm gonna get hate mail from academics on this but I've come to believe that for men, sex addiction and total loss of any real hope of actually having a functional relationship with a woman is the over-riding force behind men crack smokers.

If you are internally beaten down, self-deprecating has become woven into the fabric of your perception and you are sure you have zero chance of a real relationship... that automatically means you have no chance at a functional sex life.

Translation: The only way you're gonna get laid is with a Crack Ho.

Treat Sex Addiction and the horsepower behind the substance abuse melts away.

I had health problems that were untreated leading to 5 years of impotence. In 2000 my "plumbing came back", while sexually non functional I withdrew into a self imposed prison. It's not like I didn't do something constructive during this period, I threw myself into learning how to use computers, learning how to type, learning how to build computers, learning how to admin a MS DOS box, win95 box, win98 box, built high performance gaming boxes, learned html, learned how to admin a webserver, learned the Unix operating system (windows is for pussies btw) but I didn't have a life, let alone a sex life... can we say "pent up demand" real, real loud?

I used hard (and got laid a few times)from 2003 to 2005, my Dad died in July 2005, got evicted from Dad's house (moved in with him and ran his Internet business and dry cleaning pick up & delivery business at his request), then lived in several crack hotels until I moved to Frederick in 2006.

Life from that point on was of declining cocaine use, inching ever closer to abstinence. That happened in fits and spurts. So don't let em tell you you've gotta quit cold turkey or it won't ever work. How many times did you *attempt* to quit smoking cigs, huh? shut the f*** up.

As of this writing I'm over 300 days clean.
So to the most important person in the room, the hero with 24 hours sobriety, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

I've got to get back to work, more coming

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Crack, Kidneys and Adrenal Fatigue

Smoking Crack and Your Urine has Blood in it?

We all know Cocaine is hard on your brain, it's hard on your neurotransmitters (dopamine et al)

but it's not as well known that Cocaine is hard on your glands, it's hard on your organs, it's particularly hard on your kidneys.

Is there blood in your urine?

You can't always tell by looking at it, I used to be a truck driver (I'm a professional blogger now). As a CDL truck driver we have to take DOT physicals every two years (and no those do not include a drug test, it seems like it should but DOT physicals are to see if you are healthy enough to drive, not to see if you're using)

I have kidney stones, a lot of em, one of them is big, really big (14 mm or damn near 9/16 of an inch). When I got my physical, the blood level was high, not high enough to legally keep me off the road, but it signaled to me something was wrong.

I drank coffee... a lot of it, way too much of it (can we say addictive behavior?). Try a gallon a day. I've read that Teddy Roosevelt also drank a gallon a day (he's one of my heros btw).

Between decades of coffee abuse and crack use that went up and down (down when I had a steady truck driving job and up when I was doing something else for a living, something NOT driving a big rig... between those two my kidneys (and those are run by our Adrenal System) took a beating.

This blog is dedicated to those who are still using, cutting down is better than doing nothing.

it is my postition that the inner strength required to cut down is no small thing.. even if you still fuck up.

21 consecutive days clean is WAY better than daily or every weekend.

do not let them tell you you suck cause you don't have 30 days clean

fuck them

14 days is a huge step forward.

Even if it takes you a year to get there, 3 steps forward and 2 back is still one big mother fucker forward

So anyway, here's a snippet from an Adrenal Care Article... read this if you're pissing blood:

Adrenal Fatigue should not be confused with Addison's disease, which is a condition where the Adrenal Glands simply shut down. Addison's is often caused by autoimmune dysfunction, while Adrenal Fatigue is typically brought on by stress.

The History And Future Of This Condition
Adrenal Fatigue is a condition that was first described in medical texts in the 1800's. However, over most of the last one hundred years, doctors argued as to whether it was a legitimate medical condition or not. The main stumbling block to the recognition of Adrenal Fatigue as a scientifically valid medical condition was that science had yet to determine a way to test for its existence.

The medical science community has set a baseline for the determination as to whether a condition exists or not. Doctors need to know what is normal and what is abnormal in the human body, before the conventional medical community will recognize a condition as a real medical condition. Just as Hyperglycemia can be diagnosed when blood sugar levels are too high, and Hypoglycemia can be diagnosed when blood sugar levels are too low, doctors need to be able to do laboratory tests to make measurements, in order to make a diagnosis.
This is one of the main challenges that the alternative medicine community faces. In order to get official recognition for a treatment from the conventional medical community, scientists must show empirically, what is normal and abnormal in the human body, to trigger a condition. Alternative medicine providers typically recognize a condition, well before the mainstream medical community is willing to accept it as fact, because mainstream medicine is waiting on proof of concept before it is willing to embrace a diagnosis or treatment.
Where Adrenal Fatigue is concerned, a laboratory test has recently been developed to make a proper diagnosis of this condition, although your doctor may not yet be aware of this fact.

Adrenal Gland Function
The adrenal glands are two small glands that sit atop the kidneys. Each adrenal gland has two compartments. The inner or medulla affects the sympathetic nervous system and is responsible for producing two hormones,epinephrine and norepinephrine. They play a role in helping to cope with physical and emotional stress and are responsible for the fight or flight response. The outer adrenal cortex is responsible for producing more than 50 different hormones in three major classes - glucocorticoids, mineralcorticoids and androgens. The most important glucocorticoid hormone is cortisol. When cortisol output is too low, then the body is unable to appropriately deal with stress when it occurs.

The adrenal cortex produces all sex hormones, with the exception of the DHEA, which is a weak androgenic hormone that both males and females receive in large doses. DHEA is important to the production of cortisol, in that DHEA in conjunction with testosterone and estrogen, are made from pregnenolone, a substance derived from cholesterol. Prolonged deficiencies in pregnenolone will reduce glucocorticosteroids such as cortisol and mineralcorticoids like aldosterone.

The most important anti-stress hormone in the body is cortisol. When the adrenal gland is working correctly and producing the proper amount of cortisol, then the body will be able to handle stress appropriately. Cortisol works to normalize blood sugar and to suppress the immune system to keep white blood cells from attacking healthy cells. Cortisol also serves as a powerful anti-inflammatory agent and a vaso-constrictor - helping to normalize blood pressure.
In summary, cortisol is the primary regulator of the body's defenses. It controls the start of the defense response and it prevents the body's defenses from overreacting to a perceived threat.
Adrenal Fatigue Symptoms
"�Weight gain and inability to lose it, especially around the waist.
"�High frequency of getting the flu and other respiratory diseases that tends to resist treatments.
"�Experiencing upper back or neck pain with no apparent cause.
"�Reduced sex drive.
"�Lightheaded when rising from a prone position or in general.
"�Forgetfulness.
"�Difficulties waking up in the morning.
"�Need coffee or stimulants to get started in the morning.
"�Experiencing a lack of energy in the mornings and late afternoon.
"�Lethargic in the late evening, but resist going to bed.
"�Briefly feel better after eating.
"�Cravings for salty, fatty, and high protein foods such as meat and cheese.
"�Increase symptoms of PMS for women; periods are heavy and then stop, only to start flow again a couple days later.
"�Having a tendency to tremble when stressed.
"�Feels better when stress is relieved, such as on weekends and vacation.
Additional Symptoms
"�Mild depression
"�Food and or inhalant allergies
"�Lethargy and lack of energy
"�Increased effort to perform daily tasks
"�Decreased ability to handle stress
"�Dry and thin skin
"�Hypoglycemia
"�Low Body Temperature
"�Nervousness
"�Palpitation
"�Unexplained hair loss
"�Alternating constipation and diarrhea
"�Dyspepsia

Causes of Adrenal Fatigue
None of these given symptoms can definitively prove Adrenal Fatigue, and should only be considered when all other organic pathologies have been ruled out.
One of the most common overlooked causes of Adrenal Fatigue is a chronic or severe infection that gives rise to an inflammatory response. Frequently, these infections can reside within the body with no obvious signs. The most common type infections that can cause adrenal fatigue include parasitic and bacterial infections, including Giardia and H. pylori.

Adrenal Fatigue is the result of acute severe or chronic excessive stress that a person's body is unable to properly combat. The ability of the human body to handle physical and emotional stress is essential to human survival, and we have been given a full set of tools to combat stress in the adrenal glands. But when the adrenal glands are not operating efficiently or correctly, the body will begin to handle stress less effectively and symptoms will begin to make their presence known.
Common causes of adrenal fatigue include:
"�Anger
"�Chronic fatigue
"�Chronic illness
"�Chronic infection
"�Chronic pain
"�Depression
"�Excessive exercise
"�Fear and guilt
"�Gluten intolerance
"�Low blood sugar
"�Mal-absorption
"�Mal-digestion
"�Toxic exposure
"�Severe or chronic stress
"�Surgery
"�Late hours
"�Sleep deprivation
"�Excessive Exercise
"�Excessive sugar in diet
"�Excessive caffeine intake from coffee and tea

Laboratory Testing For Adrenal Fatigue
In adrenal fatigue testing, clinicians seek the markers cortisol and DHEA. Tests can be performed using a blood test or a saliva test, but the saliva test is preferential because it measures the amount of free and circulating hormones instead of the binded hormones commonly measured in blood test.

DHEA can be measured anytime during the day. Cortisol is the higher in the morning and lower in the evening before bed, so the adrenal fatigue test should be given in the morning.
As previously mentioned, testing should also be done to rule out sub-clinical infections as the cause for adrenal fatigue. So as a companion to the cortisol and DHEA measure, the lab should couple a specialized test measuring the immunoglobulin response to the process, searching for bacteria and parasites in the culture.

Source: http://www.articlesnatch.com/Article/Adrenal-Fatigue----Symptoms-And-Treatment/683791

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Overdose rarely from a single drug

A Combination of Drugs?

Rarely does a prescription drug overdose occur from taking too much of a single drug alone, although it can happen. The vast majority of drug overdose deaths happen because of a combination of drugs. According to the Drug Abuse Warning Network (DAWN) victims of drug overdoses have an average of 2.7 drugs in their system at the time.

Most prescription drug overdoses happen because the person takes more than one pain medication, or takes pain killers along with tranquilizers or sleeping pills, or drinks alcohol with pain killers, tranquilizers or other depressants.

Many times it's accidental. With pain medications, for example, the person may build up a tolerance to them so that they no longer provide the relief they need. So they begin to take larger doses or more than one kind to try to relieve their pain. The drugs begin to build up in their system with tragic results.

Respiratory Failure Causes Death

Source: http://alcoholism.about.com/b/2009/06/26/investigation-continues-into-the-death-of-michael-jackson.htm?nl=1

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Subjective Reality: Time is an illusion- 20 things you didn't know

Time is an optical Illusion... or Delusion Einstein said so

Atheistic or Spiritual? Religious or Spiritual? Time is an optical Illusion... or Delusion Einstein said so.. science uses those equations as gospel. Scientists have been looking at the data and to date, very few of them want to say what's staring everyone right in the face.

Employer Drug Testing

Anything that can be abused... will be abused.

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The following information is provided not for the purpose of helping someone avoid testing dirty. It is provided to illustrate that if employers used the more expensive and more accurate drug screening tests AND THE DRUG TAKING POPULATION KNEW THIS

... there would be less abuse, and more people testing clean.

The current drug screening situation as it pertains to employment is a farce.
The people that should get caught don't get caught and a tiny fraction of people who are actually clean, get false positives.

If an insurance company were running the employment show, every body would take the better tests (the hair test, not the urine test)

Employer attitudes towards drug testing are similar to the apathetic attitude some employers have towards employee theft, or pilferage. It's cheaper to absorb it and pass it on to the consumer than it is to go through the pain in the ass of actually hiring people who don't steal.

Shoplifting is in this category too. It is cheaper to let them get away with it, than it is to hire people to stop it... the shoplifters know this
...the dis honest employee population knows this
... and the drug taking population knows all of this.

The public is, for the most part, unaware.

In some commercial business markets, so much of the population is drug addicted that many employers simply look the other way. The attitude is such that the employer seemingly gives up. If they had to hire drug free, they wouldn't get anyone, who really wants to work the night shift at a pizza place or drug store. I base this concept on the West Baltimore neighborhood I lived in and got high in from 2000 to 2005.

I actually remember reading a Baltimore newspaper article that alleged that 2/3 of a certain Baltimore neighborhood was addicted to heroin- sadly I wasn't a journalist at the time so I failed to note which newspaper said it nor can I vouch for the accuracy of the article nor can I cite references other than the fact that I stayed high for 2 years and ran in those crowds, meaning the allegations of the article were similar to what I saw with my own eyes.


DEFINITION: A False Positive is a drug free sample falsely being reported as showing positive for drugs.

Cocaine False Positives

Other Names You Might Know

Coke
Crack
Flake
Rocks
Snow


Things That Can Cause False Positives For Cocaine

Amoxicillin

Kidney Infection

Liver Disease

Tonic Water

Kidney Disease

Diabetes

A false positive drug test can occur for a number of reasons including: improper laboratory procedure, mixing up samples, incorrect paperwork and passive inhalation. But the most common cause of drug testing false positives are cross reactants. A cross reactant is a substance which because of its similar chemical structure to a drug or its metabolite can cause a false positive result.

Drug Test Interaction With Medicines And Foods

Be aware that certain foods and over-the-counter medications can cause you to test "positive" for various kinds of drugs. Some simple examples are:

Poppy seeds, for example, can show up on a drug test as morphine.

Cold remedies that contain codeine can also cause a positive result for morphine

Valium reportedly can produce erroneous indications of PCP (Phencyclidine), and other cold remedies can apparently produce false positive drug screen of methamphetamine usage

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The widespread availability of hemp-containing products, including everything from hemp-seed oil nutritional supplements to hemp-seed candy, cookies, cheese, bread, cooking oil, and general seasoning, means that ingesting ANY of these products could potentially cause a false positive result on a test for marijuana.

Hair and urine testing is highly susceptable to false positive drug testing - to the point that some experts call such testing "junk science". People with dark skin are particularily susceptable to false drug testing results when exposure to second hand marijuana or cocaine smoke is absorbed into their hair.

More than 250 over the counter or prescription drugs can cause you to test positive on a drug test.

Pain relievers such as Advil, Nuprin, Motrin

Menstrual cramp medications like Midol and Trendar

Ibuprofen is known to cause positive samples for Marijuana

Anti inflammatories such as Naproxyn

Dristan Nasal Spray, Neosynephren, Vicks Nasal Spray, Sudafed

Over the counter appetite suppressants which contain propanolamine

Common nasal decongestants can cause a positive reading for Amphetamines

Medications containing chloropromazine and fluspirilene may yield a positive when tested for amphetamines

Vicks Formula 44M containing Dextromethorphan, and Primatene-M containing perylamine as well as the pain reliever Demerol, and prescription anti-depressant Elavil test positive for opiates up to three days

Quinine water can also cause a positive reading for opiates

Poppy Seeds such as the ones on a bagel from your favorite deli, represent a potentially serious source of falsely positive results in testing opiate abuse

Nyquil Nighttime Cold Medicine will test positive for Methadone up to two days

Amoxicillin has caused positives for cocaine

Diazepam tests positive for PCP

A small fraction of the population excrete large amounts of endogenons lysozyme or malate dehydrogenase in their urine which can produce a positive drug test.
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Africans and certain Orientals might test positive for marijuana due to the pigment melanin in their skin which shows up in a dark person's urine sample.
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Second hand marijuana or cocaine that you might inhale may give your test a positive result for several days.

PLEASE READ THIS DISCLAIMER: Let us first say that not all drug tests are sensitive to all of the following and just ingesting one or more of these ingredients will not guarantee a drug test false positive test. Also just by saying you have ingested one or more of these ingredients will not automatically dismiss a false positive drug test. Hair and urine testing is highly susceptable to false positive drug testing - to the point that some experts call such testing "junk science". People with dark skin are particularily susceptable to false drug testing results when exposure to second hand marijuana or cocaine smoke is absorbed into their hair.

"TRICKS" THAT DO NOT WORK AND COULD CAUSE ONE TO FAIL

Various techniques have been running around for some time on how to beat a urine drug test. Most of these techniques are known and the tests and testing methods have been adjusted to compensate for their use. Let's look at some of the most common techniques.

SAMPLE SUBSTITUTION or adulteration has become a significant issue due to the prevalence of synthetic and/or drug-free urine and a wide range of adulterants available on the internet. Some are very effective, but are of dubious value because they are easily detectable. As an example, one of the often used methods to test for adulterants is to add some amount of an actual drug to a small portion of the sample and then retest that portion. If a masking agent is present in the urine, the resulting drug test will have a negative result despite the fact that a drug was added. This situation is also usually reported to whomever ordered the test.

DRINKING LOTS OF WATER - Some people might attempt to defeat a urine test by drinking copious amounts of water. However, a sufficiently diluted sample may be rejected due to its clear color. Samples that are too clear may be flagged and tested for specific gravity and/or the presence of creatinine. If the sample fails one or both of these tests, the sample is rejected and the dilution is reported to the entity that ordered the test and could even result in a failure as some testing entities will not allow a retest.

source: http://www.alwaystestclean.com/false_positive_drug_test.htm

In Summary: Hair Testing is the only way to really get a drug free place of employment.

HAIR DRUG TESTING.

THIS IS A WHOLE DIFFERENT BALL GAME. BE CAREFUL OF THIS TEST

History can be obtained from any hair follicle which can be taken from any body location. Use can be detected, at a minimum, for many months and this detection can be stretched to even years depending on where and how the sample was removed. Most often the sample is targeted at the hair follicles that would represent use in the prior 90 days. However, this is not a stead fast rule.

A Hair Drug Test is considered highly accurate at showing any prescription drugs, drugs of abuse or even nicotine from smoking that have been used within a specified detection window.

As hair grows out drugs used are encased in the hair shaft, so the longer the hair, the longer back in an individual's drug history the drug testing laboratory can go. Most hair drug testing laboratories tend to use only the hair within about 2.5 - 4 cm of the scalp and discard the rest. This arbitrarily limits the detection history to about 90 days, depending upon the rate at which your hair grows.

Some people attempt to circumvent the hair drug test through shaving their heads. In the absence of the required amount of hair on the scalp, any body hair can be used as an acceptable substitute. For pre-employment hair testing the inability to obtain a sample may be grounds for not hiring the individual.

There is a growing trend in major companies and law enforcement agencies to utilize hair analysis drug test in account of its efficiency and reputation as the gold standard when considering test accuracy. This technology makes use of radioimmunoassay technology with subsequent confirmation by mass spectrometry. Hair Testing labs are regulated by CLIA (Clinical Laboratory Improvement Amendments of 1988) or SAMHSA (Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration) and not the FDA (Food and Drug Administration).

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Why Rehab Doesnt Work

Why do you we constantly hear about Celebrities going in and out of Rehab?

Why is it that people have "hope" that what passes for "Treatment" will "help" somebody but in the back of every ones mind (and they're afraid to admit or say this aloud)we all know the truth... it's a 'slap on the wrist'. Why is recidivism is so high?

Because the L.C.S.W. (licensed clinical social workers) are not running the show, the idiot psychologists are. Don't get me started about totally useless Psychiatrists.
Psychiatrists are hopelessly atheist and are foolishly convinced that this is a brain chemistry imbalance. I'm so tired of hearing erudite suits with their expensive degrees talk about the hippo campus this and amigdla that...

They're looking in the wrong part of the pond, and it gets worse:
Since the only tool in their toolbox is a hammer, and THEY have the degrees (pedigree should I say?) they feed us this 'baby spoon fed' bullsh** about how the ONLY problem they see looks curiously like a nail.

(so it's a good thing for us that they are the keepers of the hammers, isn't it?)

How many of the Freakin so called Doctors have used the sh**?

How many of the clock watching too lazy to get a real job social workers who took this in college to make them look "altruistic" because they "help" people and just like Miss America all they want is "world peace"... how many of them woke up in the evening shi*ing their pants because they were supposed to go to work YESTERDAY and slept for 30 hours because they had stayed awake for 3 or 4 days straight?

It takes one to know one

Time to wake up and smell the coffee people.

Crack is NOT about a substance, it isn't even about Drugs.

Crack is about people who are so insecure about GETTING LAID that they need crack to procure a sex partner

Crack is about sex addiction
NOT substance abuse.

Picture this:
a guy is butt ugly (he's not but he's no Brad Pitt either)
He's fat, might even smell bad...
self esteem?
you're talking not just another planet, for this sorry SOB, self esteem is on an alternate parallel universe!

His realistic prospects of getting into a woman's pants are so far less than zero it'd make him laugh himself into a seizure to actually believe he had half a chance.

Enter the Crack Ho

Now, with this magic substance, brave new worlds are open to him...

Add Erectile Dysfunction to this mix and...

You idiots are so far off the mark, you have no idea.

Treat Sex Addiction and you get to the real source.
Treating Substance Abuse is giving the common cold a kleenex (you dumb asses)

Do I sound pissed?
Really? do I?
hmm

OK, so you want someone to quit cold turkey (NOT gonna happen by the way)
All your gonna do is set this poor slob up for double or triple self depracation when he lies to you, feels like sh** because he can't do what you want him to do

Ever heard of Meta Shame (you seriously F***ed up Assholes)

Shame is you feel bad, you may not know why but you feel bad
ignorance is bliss
Meta Shame is when you feel bad ABOUT feeling bad
(and you call yourselves therapists? now the guy is worse off, and you're down on him from your ivory tower you piece of shit)

Sex Addiction (you went to college and I'm a high school drop out and I have to teach you this? I can't believe this... )

Sex Addiction is like Food Addiction

You can't quit food addiction cold turkey
can you? did I miss something here...

Last time I checked if you stopped eating you died

What are you really going to do about sex addiction, become celibate?

You first (you mother f******)

Treat what's really going on. And you'll get somewhere

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